D-Day is Birthday - understanding what she's going through. Home together will be a shock - feeding, sleeping and dirty nappies. Dad's role will change through the years - leading, inspiring, educating, protecting and loving. There are four time-frames - 0-5, 6-10, 11-15, 15-20. Making time for fatherhood needs to be understood and implemented. All the basics and more are covered and explained: psychological health, security, self-confidence, discipline, constancy, education, disagreements, sexuality, enpowerment and so much more. Being a great dad - or step-dad - is a process not an end goal. The longer you go on trying, the greater you'll be. And it's your most important job too, because when your children become parents they will have had a good role model that will make them great too.